Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Feeling well, not feeling well, feeling well, not feeling well...

Ok, so I haven't updated for a bit again. Things change day to day. For instance, Mark was suppossed to have his endoscopy on Friday. They ended up not doing it because Mark's blood was too thin(he's on blood thinners). So we rescheduled for Monday. Mark has also been feeling naucious off and on everyday. It's hard for him to function when we feels like that. But Saturday, even though he didn't feel good, he really wanted to go to Gettysburgh. So, we did! He slept all 3 hours on the way there and back to help with his energy. It was awesome! What we didn't know was that it was the 144th anniversary of the Gettysburgh Address. They had a parade with everyone dressed in clothing from the time period and we ended the day listening to a brass band play Battle Hymn of the Republic on top of Little Round Top. It was an amazing short visit. It tired Mark out but he said it was well worth it. Sunday he slept the whole day feeling pretty badly. On Monday he went in for his endoscopy. They went down his throat, into his intestines with a scope. It was still a little swollen where they reconnected his intestine from the surgery. So they took a balloon and expanded it a little. Amazingly right after, Mark felt the best he had ever felt since the surgery. He hadn't had an appetite at all since the surgery until yesterday. We went out for a little bit afterwards grabbing a bite to eat together. Then this morning Mark woke up and threw up again...it was short lived. BUT! We think it may be one of the medications he is on. So he didn't take it this afternoon and now he is feeling good again. We were able to go and see a movie! We are crossing our fingers that it lasts!

We have clinic tomorrow morning, we are hoping that should give us a better timeline of when we get to go home, we are hoping for next week. We have been invited to have Thanksgiving at a place called "Family House". It's housing for patients/families who have to stay long term near the hospital. They have nurses on staff through the night too, it's an amazing place. We have met so many amazing people throughout our stay, several of them staying at Family House. Even though we are having a hard time with the thought of not being with our own children and family on Thanksgiving, we feel humbled and blessed to spend it with those who are far away from their families as well. Down the line, we hope to share some of the AMAZING stories/journies of those we have met here.

And lastly, if I don't get to write before Thursday, We are TRULY grateful for each of you and feel blessed to have such wonderful family and friends. Again, Mark and I both said that you start realizing who your true friends are when you go through such trials as these...thank you, thank you, thank you. We wouldn't be able to make it through without your support and prayers, we've been carried. May each of you be able to enjoy your Thanksgiving and be sure to let those you love know you are grateful for them! I guess that means I need to say... "WE LOVE YOU!" HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!!! Till next time...

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Jeff and I just want to tell you guys that we are sorry you're not back yet and that we probably won't be seeing you for Thanksgiving but we think about you all everyday and hope that Mark is improving so you can get back to your normal lives and be with the kids again. We meant to get together with Josh & Sierra this week but my I have been filing in for people on my off days and Jeff has work and school so we are both crazy busy all the time. I will try to call them on Thanksgiving! Hope you have a good one, however you spend it! Glad you're time at Ghettysburg was so awesome. I know Jeff will be jealous! ;)

Anonymous said...

Jen, thanks for the continued updates. I know how difficult it must be with all the ups and downs; but hang-in there. We love you all and will continue our prayers for you both. Mark, we are thinking of you and hoping for your quick recovery. Jen, I can't wait to catch-up soon. I bet you are looking forward to the day when you can sit down and "chat" with your girlfriends again. I'll be here when that day comes. Until then, thanks to the internet, we can at least "cyber-chat". lol.

I got your letter in the mail yesterday. Thanks so much. Josh is doing well. We are taking good care of your wonderful children. They are very loved here at LV.

Happy Thanksgiving to you both. What a blessing that you will have the Family House friends to share this time with. I hope you enjoy it and are able to return to CA soon.

Your friend,
Amy

Anonymous said...

Hey Jen and Mark!

We miss you guys a lot and feel bad you won't be home for Thanksgiving but know you'll be home soon. I actually will be calling the kids tonight to see how they are doing -we have been so busy we haven't had the chance to see Josh and Sierra.

We're glad Mark is out of the hospital and Jim will dig the picture of him looking at the hunting mag. I'm surprised he hasn't called Shiere to take him road duck hunting out there yet!~

We miss you guys and all your friends at Bristow are pulling for you! I sent a pack full of card from the kids I hope you guys got it.
Love ya
And take care
Shawna and Jim Borba

angie said...

We love you mark and jen and keep praying for you- Happy Thanksgiving!
love, Pete and Ang